Comments on: Ex and the City http://www.hurrhurr.com/fn/2007/ex-and-the-city/ the spouse, the soulmate, the dreamgirl, the "friend of mine" Fri, 21 Nov 2008 06:40:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Kits http://www.hurrhurr.com/fn/2007/ex-and-the-city/#comment-87 Kits Wed, 14 Nov 2007 09:25:51 +0000 http://www.hurrhurr.com/fn/2007/ex-and-the-city/#comment-87 Its a very hard thing being in a relationship. You trust the person with your heart and soul and of course body ;) This ex walking back into life is a highly scary and wonderful thought at the same time. I did a discussion with a friend. My ex could tempt me seriously into getting back with him. But the problems that caused us not to work out still exist and haven't gone away. I am unsure if he feels the same way (obviously never having discussed this with him). The person who walked away had power over you and it hurt when they walked away. But if you are with someone and truly happy (as happy as ppl can be in a relshp) then to jeopardize this for the memory of what once was could be sheer stupidity. Nostalgia sometimes makes fools of us :) To throw what is for memories could be a very risky experience and yet fulfilling perhaps. I think at the end one should make the choice and live never to regret it. Its a very hard thing being in a relationship. You trust the person with your heart and soul and of course body ;) This ex walking back into life is a highly scary and wonderful thought at the same time. I did a discussion with a friend. My ex could tempt me seriously into getting back with him. But the problems that caused us not to work out still exist and haven’t gone away. I am unsure if he feels the same way (obviously never having discussed this with him).

The person who walked away had power over you and it hurt when they walked away. But if you are with someone and truly happy (as happy as ppl can be in a relshp) then to jeopardize this for the memory of what once was could be sheer stupidity.

Nostalgia sometimes makes fools of us :) To throw what is for memories could be a very risky experience and yet fulfilling perhaps. I think at the end one should make the choice and live never to regret it.

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