the spouse, the soulmate, the dreamgirl, the “friend of mine”
Beta, what type of a woman you want to be your Wife?
A question that has been asked many times in past 6 months, and I am still not sure of the answer. I think Life is like KBC, full of questions. You have life lines, if you are confused, take Junta’s opinion, decide if you want to go forth with it. If you have too many options, your parents can help you do fifty-fifty, in the worst case, you have a beshtesht friend whom you can phone and totally depend on his/her opinion.
Here, the similarity ends. KBC has 4 well defined options for people to choose from, Life, almost never does. One might argue that it is the wonders, the mysteries, the infinite options to choose which makes life so full of Joy, but if you look carefully, that someone is probably in Marketing.
Coming back to the question, since I don’t know all the “types” of women, I started looking for a list of the so called “types”. I figured, so many single-and-available males have answered this question, there would be a list like this in a FAQ somewhere. I can visualize your smile, you have already branded me a fool, for Mythology all over the world is full of documentation that
Women, cannot be defined.
It is foolish even to attempt to define a woman, Genies don’t know it, Oracles have answered everything except this, in fact Gods havent imparted this knowledge to anyone, anywhere (and its a general assumption that this is not because its dangerous, but because they themselves are still documenting).
The Geek I am, I refused to give up, I asked my God, “O Google, define:woman”
and Google thus spake:
Woman : an adult female person (as opposed to a man); “the woman kept house while the man hunted”
Yes, see, this is what I was looking for, not the whole encyclopedia, but the one liner which made everything clear. This example is probably too old, written when life was simple, a time which many present day men crave for, a time when people wore use-and-throw Leaf costumes, a time where you had conversations like:
“Me Big. Me Strong. Me Go. Hunt Food. You Stay. Cook food.”
Try saying that to a present day female and all you’ll get is One Tight Slap. Back to square-one, I am still confused. My answer to my parents and relatives has been heavily influenced by the movie I’ve seen last. I have ended up describing Jaahnavi of Lage Raho MunnaBhai to Trinity of Matrix, and the variation has left them confused. Hence I’ve decided to come up with Nimmo.
If you ask,
Who is Nimmo ?
Well, she’s your would-be Bhabhi Ji. I haven’t met her yet, she’s out there, somewhere. Nimmo may or may not be her name. Right now she’s a concept. And if I am lucky, I’ll meet her before she gets married to someone else
As the 25th Valentine Day of my life draws to an end. I begin the documentation of my hunt for her.
This is my story.
-@
PS. Speaking of KBC, I humbly think if you do have a beshteshtesht friend, who’s single, available, of desired age, of your choice of preferred sex, and you can use the “phone a friend” lifeline with them for any question anytime in your life, that’s your soul-mate, you’re already the winner of the show, you need look no further.
I am a 26 year old single-and-available male searching for my soulmate. Nimmo is a name I've given to my Dreamgirl as "ideal match" etc was too clinical. This will be the story of how we'll meet. If you see her first, tell me.
Kits
February 15th, 2007 at 1:53 pm
Awesomeness darling. U shd write more about Nimmo concept. I haven’t known you very long and don’t know you very well. But instinct tells me that you are going to find her and she is going to make you very happy and you are going to make her a very happy woman darling. Bigg hug to you sweetheart
Spikedelik
February 15th, 2007 at 2:10 pm
Your GOD was not just right with the one-liner, infact he gave the best definition and the encyclopedia at one go…all u had to do was read deep into it:
Woman : an adult female person (as “opposed to a man”); the woman “kept house” while the man hunted. And trust me this is not an old concept at all…its true even today. If man hunts….woman gets to keep the house :D!!!
BTW … all the best with NIMMO….as of this moment…aapke liye saari line-ay khul chuki hain… :)!
aashish
February 16th, 2007 at 2:54 pm
…..Beta, what type of a woman ….
Beta: sounds so much like a version
so many concepts later, i find this one even more intriguing. will need to follow this on
Jumboji
February 21st, 2007 at 2:10 pm
Wow… your God is true only in some parts of the world strangely not true for the subjects it caters.
Spikedelik is grossly mistaken…
BTW when Nimmo meets you, what should happen?
rinsewind...
July 23rd, 2007 at 1:12 pm
jumboji asked me to read ur blog…n its a riot.
so…its been a few months now…have u found or as a matrimonial site would put it…have u find nimmo?
hope so…
n to continue on his question…when u meet her … wat should take place… n in ur shyness i hope u havnt walked/run/scampered past her….more than once…
goodluck